Monday, October 25, 2010

Small Groups

My wife and I lead a couples small group through our church. We recently started another small group since the one we started last year split because 2 of the couples started hosting their own groups. So far, all 3 groups are going strong.
We always start our small groups with sharing our testimonies and how God is working in our lives. My wife & I go first since we have plenty of skeletons in the closet. Without getting into names & details, here are some themes from our current group and past groups.
  • The church failed miserably for my generation as we grew up, regardless of denomination, by not making God seem real.
  • People have real, deep hurts that you would never know about just looking at the surface. All is not as it seems.
  • God is currently changing lives and working in people's lives to repair past hurts.
  • A relevant church can reintroduce people to the God that actually cares.
  • I'm glad to be a part of small groups and look forward to how good is going to work in all our lives.

Health care & Morality

Check out this link for a great opinion on health care & morals.

http://journals.lww.com/em-news/Fulltext/2010/09001/Second_Opinion__Morals_Missing_from_Health_Care.1.aspx

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Suck It Up, America

Another excellent read on our healthcare crisis from another ER doc.

http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09284/1004304-109.stm

I can personally attest to seeing ambulance rides for marijuana abuse, alcohol abuse, cold symptoms, 1 episode of vomiting, a toothache, and cold symptoms that your mother would have made you chicken soup for. And those are just off the top of my head. I have a colleague who took care of a patient who called an ambulance for "dirty steri-strips".

Culture Crisis

The following was an email forwarded to me. (pardon the formatting errors)

Dear Mr. President:>> During my shift in the Emergency Room last night, I had the> pleasure of evaluating a patient whose smile revealed an expensive shiny> gold tooth, whose body was adorned with a wide assortment of elaborate and> costly tattoos, who wore a very expensive brand of tennis shoes and who> chatted on a new cellular telephone equipped with a popular R&B ringtone.>> While glancing over her patient chart, I happened to notice that> her payer status was listed as "Medicaid"! During my examination of her, the> patient informed me that she smokes more than one costly pack of cigarettes> every day and somehow still has money to buy pretzels and beer.>> And, you and our Congress expect me to pay for this woman's health> care? I contend that our nation's "health care crisis" is not the result> of a shortage of quality hospitals, doctors or nurses. Rather, it is the> result of a "crisis of culture", a culture in which it is perfectly> acceptable to spend money on luxuries and vices while refusing to take care> of one's self or, heaven forbid, purchase health insurance. It is a culture> based in the irresponsible credo that "I can do whatever I want to because> someone else will always take care of me".>> Once you fix this "culture crisis" that rewards irresponsibility> and dependency, you'll be amazed at how quickly our nation's health care> difficulties will disappear.>> Respectfully,>> STARNER JONES, MD>

It was not quite accurate but the original article was a letter to a local newspaper from a real ER doc. You can find it here:

http://spotlight.vitals.com/2009/10/dr-roger-starner-jones-muses-crisis-culture/

Being an ER doc myself, I couldn't agree more. My colleagues and I have endless stories about people who think the world owes them while they do not take care of themselves. It's both sad and extremely frustrating at the same time.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Two Choices

You have 2 options when you're in a serious car accident, that's not your fault, and you escape with minor injuries. #1- you can embrace the role of the victim and forever let your life be haunted by the accident and continue to let your life unravel because now you have something to blame it on, dwelling on revenge and bitterness. #2- rejoice in your good fortune that you were not more seriously injured and embrace a life of good decisions from this point on, celebrating the opportunity to live.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Bad Advice

I'm amazed at the number of people who come to the doctor who really don' t want to get well. When they don't like medical advice, it is labeled as bad advice. This type of advice most often involves taking some personal responsibility and changing bad decision making or bad habits.

Medical advice you don't agree with does not necessarily equal bad advice. It more likely represents a bad attitude. However, when you accept that you are responsible for your own health, there is no one left to blame but yourself when you don't get well. Having no one to blame is not acceptable to many people.

Lethal Duo

Smoking & Obesity cause a myriad of expensive health problems. Eliminate these 2 drains on the health care system and there is no more crisis. Ironic that they are both arguably 100% preventable. Even more interesting is that there is very little talk in the media or from politicians about preventing health problems. They like to talk about fixing complications, not preventing them.